我同意德米特里的回答，说得很好。

For those who are worried about the performance overhead FK's often bring, there's a way (in Oracle) you can get the query optimiser advantage of the FK constraint without the cost overhead of constraint validation during insert, delete or update. That is to create the FK constraint with the attributes RELY DISABLE NOVALIDATE. This means the query optimiser ASSUMES that the constraint has been enforced when building queries, without the database actually enforcing the constraint. You have to be very careful here to take the responsibility when you populate a table with an FK constraint like this to make absolutely sure you don't have data in your FK column(s) that violate the constraint, as if you do so you could get unreliable results from queries that involve the table this FK constraint is on.

我通常在数据集市模式中的某些表上使用这种策略，但在集成登台模式中不使用。我要确保复制数据的表已经强制执行了相同的约束，或者ETL例程强制执行了该约束。

对我来说，如果您想要遵循ACID标准，那么拥有外键以确保引用完整性是至关重要的。

“它们会使删除记录变得更加麻烦——你不能删除“主”记录，而其他表中的记录中有外键会违反这种约束。”

重要的是要记住，SQL标准定义了删除或更新外键时所采取的操作。 我所知道的是:

ON DELETE RESTRICT - Prevents any rows in the other table that have keys in this column from being deleted. This is what Ken Ray described above. ON DELETE CASCADE - If a row in the other table is deleted, delete any rows in this table that reference it. ON DELETE SET DEFAULT - If a row in the other table is deleted, set any foreign keys referencing it to the column's default. ON DELETE SET NULL - If a row in the other table is deleted, set any foreign keys referencing it in this table to null. ON DELETE NO ACTION - This foreign key only marks that it is a foreign key; namely for use in OR mappers.

这些相同的操作也适用于ON UPDATE。

默认值似乎取决于您使用的sql server。

@ emphasis——这正是导致维护噩梦的心态。

为什么，哦，为什么要忽略声明性引用完整性(其中数据至少可以保证一致)，而支持所谓的“软件强制”，这充其量是一种薄弱的预防措施。

没有充分的理由不使用它们……除非孤行对你来说不是什么大问题。

在这里回答问题的许多人都过于关注通过引用约束实现的引用完整性的重要性。在具有引用完整性的大型数据库上工作性能不佳。Oracle似乎特别不擅长级联删除。我的经验法则是，应用程序永远不应该直接更新数据库，而应该通过存储过程更新。这将代码库保存在数据库中，并意味着数据库保持其完整性。

在许多应用程序可能正在访问数据库的地方，由于引用完整性约束确实会出现问题，但这取决于控件。

还有一个更广泛的问题，应用程序开发人员可能有非常不同的需求，而数据库开发人员可能并不那么熟悉。