为什么不只是在VM中引发一个事件，然后在视图中订阅该事件呢?这将保持应用程序逻辑和视图分离，并且仍然允许您为对话框使用子窗口。

使用可冻结命令

<Grid>
        <Grid.DataContext>
            <WpfApplication1:ViewModel />
        </Grid.DataContext>


        <Button Content="Text">
            <Button.Command>
                <WpfApplication1:MessageBoxCommand YesCommand="{Binding MyViewModelCommand}" />
            </Button.Command>
        </Button>

</Grid>

public class MessageBoxCommand : Freezable, ICommand
{
    public static readonly DependencyProperty YesCommandProperty = DependencyProperty.Register(
        "YesCommand",
        typeof (ICommand),
        typeof (MessageBoxCommand),
        new FrameworkPropertyMetadata(null)
        );


    public static readonly DependencyProperty OKCommandProperty = DependencyProperty.Register(
        "OKCommand",
        typeof (ICommand),
        typeof (MessageBoxCommand),
        new FrameworkPropertyMetadata(null)
        );


    public static readonly DependencyProperty CancelCommandProperty = DependencyProperty.Register(
        "CancelCommand",
        typeof (ICommand),
        typeof (MessageBoxCommand),
        new FrameworkPropertyMetadata(null)
        );


    public static readonly DependencyProperty NoCommandProperty = DependencyProperty.Register(
        "NoCommand",
        typeof (ICommand),
        typeof (MessageBoxCommand),
        new FrameworkPropertyMetadata(null)
        );


    public static readonly DependencyProperty MessageProperty = DependencyProperty.Register(
        "Message",
        typeof (string),
        typeof (MessageBoxCommand),
        new FrameworkPropertyMetadata("")
        );

    public static readonly DependencyProperty MessageBoxButtonsProperty = DependencyProperty.Register(
        "MessageBoxButtons",
        typeof(MessageBoxButton),
        typeof(MessageBoxCommand),
        new FrameworkPropertyMetadata(MessageBoxButton.OKCancel)
        );

    public ICommand YesCommand
    {
        get { return (ICommand) GetValue(YesCommandProperty); }
        set { SetValue(YesCommandProperty, value); }
    }

    public ICommand OKCommand
    {
        get { return (ICommand) GetValue(OKCommandProperty); }
        set { SetValue(OKCommandProperty, value); }
    }

    public ICommand CancelCommand
    {
        get { return (ICommand) GetValue(CancelCommandProperty); }
        set { SetValue(CancelCommandProperty, value); }
    }

    public ICommand NoCommand
    {
        get { return (ICommand) GetValue(NoCommandProperty); }
        set { SetValue(NoCommandProperty, value); }
    }

    public MessageBoxButton MessageBoxButtons
    {
        get { return (MessageBoxButton)GetValue(MessageBoxButtonsProperty); }
        set { SetValue(MessageBoxButtonsProperty, value); }
    }

    public string Message
    {
        get { return (string) GetValue(MessageProperty); }
        set { SetValue(MessageProperty, value); }
    }

    public void Execute(object parameter)
    {
        var messageBoxResult = MessageBox.Show(Message);
        switch (messageBoxResult)
        {
            case MessageBoxResult.OK:
                OKCommand.Execute(null);
                break;
            case MessageBoxResult.Yes:
                YesCommand.Execute(null);
                break;
            case MessageBoxResult.No:
                NoCommand.Execute(null);
                break;
            case MessageBoxResult.Cancel:
                if (CancelCommand != null) CancelCommand.Execute(null); //Cancel usually means do nothing ,so can be null
                break;

        }
    }

    public bool CanExecute(object parameter)
    {
        return true;
    }

    public event EventHandler CanExecuteChanged;


    protected override Freezable CreateInstanceCore()
    {
        throw new NotImplementedException();
    }
}

一个好的MVVM对话框应该:

仅用XAML声明。 从数据绑定中获取它的所有行为。

不幸的是，WPF不提供这些特性。显示对话框需要对ShowDialog()进行代码隐藏调用。支持对话框的Window类不能在XAML中声明，因此它不能轻易地绑定到DataContext。

为了解决这个问题，我写了一个XAML存根控件，它位于逻辑树中，将数据绑定传递给一个Window，并处理显示和隐藏对话框的问题。你可以在这里找到它:http://www.codeproject.com/KB/WPF/XAMLDialog.aspx

它使用起来非常简单，不需要对ViewModel进行任何奇怪的更改，也不需要事件或消息。基本调用如下所示:

<dialog:Dialog Content="{Binding Path=DialogViewModel}" Showing="True" />

您可能希望添加一个设置显示的样式。我在我的文章中解释过。我希望这对你有所帮助。

Sorry, but I have to chime in. I have been through several of the suggested solutions, before finding the Prism.Wpf.Interactivity namespace in the Prism project. You can use interaction requests and popup window action to either roll a custom window or for simpler needs there are built in Notification and Confirmation popups. These create true windows and are managed as such. you can pass a context object with any dependencies you need in the dialog. We use this solution at my work since I found it. We have numerous senior devs here and noone has come up with anything better. Our previous solution was the dialog service into an overlay and using a presenter class to make it happen, but you had to have factories for all of the dialog viewmodels, etc.

这不是小事，但也不是超级复杂。而且它是内置在Prism中，因此是最好(或更好)的实践。

我的2分钱!

我目前的解决方案解决了你提到的大部分问题，但它完全从特定于平台的东西中抽象出来，可以重用。 此外，我使用了没有代码隐藏，只与实现ICommand的DelegateCommands绑定。 对话框基本上是一个视图——一个独立的控件，它有自己的ViewModel，它从主屏幕的ViewModel显示，但通过DelagateCommand绑定从UI触发。

查看完整的Silverlight 4解决方案在这里与MVVM和Silverlight 4模态对话框

我遇到了同样的情况，并将MessageBox包装成一个设计器不可见控件。详情在我的博客里

http://geekswithblogs.net/mukapu/archive/2010/03/12/user-prompts-messagebox-with-mvvm.aspx

同样可以扩展到任何模态对话框，文件浏览控件等。