受到@skiwi的启发，我用下面的方法解决了这个问题:

public static <T> T toSingleton(Stream<T> stream) {
    List<T> list = stream.limit(1).collect(Collectors.toList());
    if (list.isEmpty()) {
        return null;
    } else {
        return list.get(0);
    }
}

然后:

User user = toSingleton(users.stream().filter(...).map(...));

创建一个自定义收集器

public static <T> Collector<T, ?, T> toSingleton() {
    return Collectors.collectingAndThen(
            Collectors.toList(),
            list -> {
                if (list.size() != 1) {
                    throw new IllegalStateException();
                }
                return list.get(0);
            }
    );
}

我们使用收集工具。然后构造我们想要的收集器

使用collector. tolist()收集器在列表中收集对象。 在最后应用一个额外的结束符，返回单个元素—或者抛出一个IllegalStateException if列表。Size != 1。

用作:

User resultUser = users.stream()
        .filter(user -> user.getId() > 0)
        .collect(toSingleton());

然后，您可以随心所欲地定制这个Collector，例如在构造函数中将异常作为参数，将其调整为允许两个值，甚至更多。

另一种可能不那么优雅的解决方案是:

您可以使用包含peek()和AtomicInteger的“变通方法”，但实际上不应该使用它。

你可以做的只是把它收集到一个List中，就像这样:

LinkedList<User> users = new LinkedList<>();
users.add(new User(1, "User1"));
users.add(new User(2, "User2"));
users.add(new User(3, "User3"));
List<User> resultUserList = users.stream()
        .filter(user -> user.getId() == 1)
        .collect(Collectors.toList());
if (resultUserList.size() != 1) {
    throw new IllegalStateException();
}
User resultUser = resultUserList.get(0);

我认为这种方式更简单:

User resultUser = users.stream()
    .filter(user -> user.getId() > 0)
    .findFirst().get();

public List<state> getAllActiveState() {
    List<Master> master = masterRepository.getActiveExamMasters();
    Master activeMaster = new Master();
    try {
        activeMaster = master.stream().filter(status -> status.getStatus() == true).reduce((u, v) -> {
            throw new IllegalStateException();
        }).get();
        return stateRepository.getAllStateActiveId(activeMaster.getId());
    } catch (IllegalStateException e) {
        logger.info(":More than one status found TRUE in Master");
        return null;
    }
}

In this above code, As per the condition if its find more than one true in the list then it will through the exception. When it through the error will showing custom message because it easy maintain the logs on server side. From Nth number of element present in list just want only one element have true condition if in list there are more than one elements having true status at that moment it will through an exception. after getting all the this we using get(); to taking that one element from list and stored it into another object. If you want you added optional like Optional<activeMaster > = master.stream().filter(status -> status.getStatus() == true).reduce((u, v) -> {throw new IllegalStateException();}).get();

另一种选择是使用reduction: (本例使用字符串，但可以轻松应用于包括User在内的任何对象类型)

List<String> list = ImmutableList.of("one", "two", "three", "four", "five", "two");
String match = list.stream().filter("two"::equals).reduce(thereCanBeOnlyOne()).get();
//throws NoSuchElementException if there are no matching elements - "zero"
//throws RuntimeException if duplicates are found - "two"
//otherwise returns the match - "one"
...

//Reduction operator that throws RuntimeException if there are duplicates
private static <T> BinaryOperator<T> thereCanBeOnlyOne()
{
    return (a, b) -> {throw new RuntimeException("Duplicate elements found: " + a + " and " + b);};
}

所以对于User的情况，你会有:

User match = users.stream().filter((user) -> user.getId() < 0).reduce(thereCanBeOnlyOne()).get();

使用Reduce和Optional

来自Fabio Bonfante的回应:

public <T> T getOneExample(Collection<T> collection) {
    return collection.stream()
        .filter(x -> /* do some filter */)
        .reduce((x,y)-> {throw new IllegalStateException("multiple");})
        .orElseThrow(() -> new NoSuchElementException("none"));
}